Three Years
Today is my blog-versary. It began three years ago with The Pit of Refusal. When I started this blog, I wasn’t sure I’d even make …
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Happy New Year!
Wishing everyone a happy new year! Be sure to give your sweetie a nice smooch at midnight! I’ve moved! While you can peruse the …
How Do You Initiate Sex?
Has your husband ever said he would like you to initiate sex more? Mine has. It used to be that when he would say …
Regret: When Someday Never Comes
When I stand before God and am held accountable for how I tended my marriage, instead of bringing nothing but years of excuses and fear and walls, I will be able to offer my repentance and gratitude for the work he has done in me that have enabled me to tend my marriage. When God asks you how you tended your marriage, what will you have to offer?
Intimacy: No Longer Alone
For many years, I felt alone in my marriage. When I needed support, emotional or otherwise, I never knew if my husband would be there …
Postcard from SheSpeaks
Oh, dear friends, I can’t thank you enough for being the means of God’s provision to send me to this conference! I have experienced God’s …
Prayers for Husbands
With a blog that is a ministry for women, I am sometimes puzzled by the number of men who read here. I am grateful that …
Getting Ready to Roll
A few months ago, I shared with you my desire to attend the upcoming She Speaks Conference. I asked for your help, in funds and prayers, …
One Year
A year ago, I published my first post on this blog, wondering if anyone would ever find me, read what I wrote, or find any …
What Resources Have Helped You?
As I add some pages to this site, I’d like to include a list of resources that have helped other women in transforming the sexual …
Lend a Helping Shovel
It just isn’t fair. We have well over a foot of snow on the ground. We seem to get some snow every few days. …
Time to Pray
The picture is one I took today while my daughter was driving us to the city where she attends college six hours away. Tomorrow morning, …
Marking Time
Women mark time. It’s the rhythm of our lives as God designed us—28 days, nine months, a full year until a child is a new …
A Marriage Carol
I recently began to reread Dickens’s A Christmas Carol (free for Kindle!). Ebenezer Scrooge is reminded of his past, sees that others around him …
Red Roses
I’ve had a rough week at work, with lots of challenging situations and several women sitting in the crying chair in my office and needing …