Learning to Dance with Desire
Sometimes our difficulties with sex have nothing to do with our own issues and everything to do with our husband. This post looks at a husband’s selfishness–and it may not just be a result of a sinfully selfish heart. If there is something else going on, you might be able to respond in ways that lead to change.
Sometimes our difficulties with sex have nothing to do with our own issues and everything to do with our husband. This post lays out four reasons our husbands might be the problem and talks about what to do if your husband’s sin is the primary reason you struggle with sexual interest and enjoyment.
KHS Ministry provides information, insight, and support for Christian husbands who want to pursue deeper sexual intimacy with their wives.
When your husband is starving for sexual intimacy, he may not have an accurate idea of what his libido actually is.
Does your husband struggle with your sexual past and the baggage you brought into your marriage? His healing is his responsibility, but there are some things you can do to encourage him.
“For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.” Ephesians …
Our sexual differences make us grow and become more in our marriages.
A man’s sexuality is inherent to his sense of self. How can you respond?
Three years ago, I wrote a post that upset a lot of folks: Six Things to Know About Sexual Refusal. I’ve moved! While you can …
Many resources can have us convinced that all men struggle with lust. What does this mean when your husband says that he isn’t like that? Believe your husband and expect the best from him–even when it comes to lust.
I used to think that for my husband, sex was physical. All he really wanted from it was an orgasm—and all he wanted me …
Like many men, my husband has a one-track mind. That isn’t to say that he only thinks about one thing ever. It’s more that he …
Most husbands experience emotional connection best through sexual intimacy. Their desire to connect with you through sexual intimacy is how God designed them. And you may be surprised to know that learning to care for your husband’s heart may end up healing your heart as well.
What happens when we stop thinking that our sexual response should look just like that of our husbands? What if we instead chose to celebrate our differences and embrace what our female sexual response brings to the intimacy in our marriages?
When I was in fifth grade, I was part of the playground safety patrol at school. Before school and during recess, I got to …