Intimacy in marriage includes knowing and accepting each other. My husband needs to accept that my sexuality is different from his, and he needs to accept that what I will give him in the form of my expression is the best way I can translate my feelings into his being desired. At the same time, I need to accept that my husband needs to feel sexually desirable to me. I learned that I could translate what I'm feeling emotionally into a sexual expression that will speak to my husband.

Lost in Translation

Intimacy in marriage includes knowing and accepting each other. My husband needs to accept that my sexuality is different from his, and he needs to accept that what I will give him in the form of my expression is the best way I can translate my feelings into his being desired. At the same time, I need to accept that my husband needs to feel sexually desirable to me. I learned that I could translate what I’m feeling emotionally into a sexual expression that will speak to my husband.

Pride goeth before a fall, and today's peacock is tomorrow's feather duster. I was prideful about being a great communicator--until it became clear that I wasn't as great as I thought I was.

Today’s Peacock

Pride goeth before a fall, and today’s peacock is tomorrow’s feather duster. I was prideful about being a great communicator–until it became clear that I wasn’t as great as I thought I was.