You may know that you need to make some changes. You may have great intentions. But when sexy time arrives, those great intentions take you only so far in the face of those ingrained patterns of avoiding intimacy. How do you move from “I think I can, I think I can” to “mmm, this is lovely and amazing”? To those of us who've spent years avoiding sex, learning how to have sex again can be a big challenge. This post gives you some ideas to get you started.

Can You Learn How to Have Sex (Again)?

You may know that you need to make some changes. You may have great intentions. But when sexy time arrives, those great intentions take you only so far in the face of those ingrained patterns of avoiding intimacy. How do you move from “I think I can, I think I can” to “mmm, this is lovely and amazing”? To those of us who’ve spent years avoiding sex, learning how to have sex again can be a big challenge. This post gives you some ideas to get you started.

You are the most beautiful woman in the world to your husband.

Beautiful?

  Among the many things I wondered about during much of my marriage is whether I’ve been beautiful. Although I didn’t love the way I looked …