These posts reflect my experience. Although your experience is your own, these posts may give you some questions to consider as you try to understand your contributions to the sexual tension in your marriage.
Even as you begin to make changes in behavior and thought, doing the deeper work of understanding the “why” of your refusing and gate-keeping can strengthen your resolve and the success of your efforts.
- What If It Really Is Me?
- Is Your Mind Ready to Make Some Changes?
- Check Your Luggage
- Once Upon a Time
- 5 Things I’ve Learned
- Hungering for Connection
- In Real Life
- Sacred Cows
- Foolish Builders
- Lessons and Assumptions
- Digging Deeper
- The Next Day
- The Heart of Gomer
- Leap of Faith
- What Did I Know, and When Did I Know It?
- Dare 26: Trust
- Dare 35: A Revelation
- With a Naked Heart
- Layers and Layers and Layers
- Be Still
- Holding On
- Arms Are for Embracing
- The Wrong Message
- Out of Control
- Peace and Fireworks
- Keeper of the Gate
- Unbearable Lessons
- Lessons Learned from Premarital Sex
- Leaving a Sexless Marriage
- “I Promise I’ll Do Better”
- Why “Why” Matters
