Too Little, Too Late?
When you realize how deeply you’ve hurt your husband, it can be devastating to hear him respond with “too little, too late.” Here are some tips to help you grow and have hope.
Tag: change
Reflections of the Heart
It wasn’t a change in my approach to sex that changed our marriage. Sex was a problem in our marriage, but it wasn’t THE problem. …
Go Small
I’ve often heard the expression, “Go big, or go home.” The idea is that if you’re going to do something, do it in the most …
I Thought Sex Was Just for My Husband. Here’s What Changed My Mind.
I kept seeing articles touting the benefits of sex for women: physical health, higher libido, better bladder control, pain relief, less stress and anxiety, and …
Seven
If you start your journey now, where will you be in seven years?
Can “Fake It to Make It” Really Work with Sex?
Can you really “fake it to make it” when it comes to sex?
Be a Butterfly
Don’t be afraid of transformation. It is what will help you develop new beauty and freedom in your marriage, like a butterfly emerging from its cocoon.
When You’ve Changed and Your Husband Has Stayed the Same
How can you find peace when you’ve made so many changes and your husband has barely budged? This post gives you eight ideas for how you can respond.
Making Sexual Changes: Your First Step
So far in this Making Sexual Changes series, I’ve talked about understanding how we got to the beginning of this journey of change and …
Making Sexual Changes: Swimming into the Waters of Change
This is the second of a three-part series about how to begin to make changes in sexual intimacy in your marriage. Some of us …
Making Sexual Changes: What Is Your Story?
I hear from many women about how they came to decide to work on sexual intimacy in their marriages. Not a single one has ever …
How Growth Looks
The growth we cannot see is just as important as the growth that isn’t yet visible.
What’s In It for Me?
For years, the idea of making changes in sexual intimacy had evoked the question, What’s in it for me? It turned out that I benefited even more than my husband did!
Reach for Intimacy
If you’re in a hurting marriage without intimacy, begin where you are. Work on one thing you see in front of you. Reach out for intimacy.
Last Year’s Fruit
My family moved a couple months ago. Although I am sad to be losing the lilacs up at the top of my page (unless my …