Vanilla Is a Flavor
We often people talk about “vanilla sex”—sex that is plain, the same every time, and not too spicy. Vanilla sex is “the usual.” It’s our …
Learning to Dance with Desire
We often people talk about “vanilla sex”—sex that is plain, the same every time, and not too spicy. Vanilla sex is “the usual.” It’s our …
We were in a rut. We’d been married twenty years, and we hadn’t tried anything new sexually since our earliest years together. We had two …