Three Months In

Next week marks three months since this blog was launched. At that time, I decided I would take three months to find my voice and see how things go with this whole blog adventure. At three months, I would set a plan for how to move forward.

I’ve been thinking about the mission of this blog, the ministry that is developing, and how this blog fits into my real life. I have some definite ideas for my next steps here, but I’d like to get a clearer sense of who has been reading the blog, their background, and the  challenges they face in their own marriages.

So, yes, that means I’m doing a survey! There are nine questions, but most of them are optional and you can skip the ones you don’t want to answer.


ETA: The survey has closed.  However, if you’d still like to answer the questions, you can use the contact form below.

1. What is your marital status and gender?

  • Husband
  • Wife
  • Single Man
  • Single Woman

2. If you are married, does your marriage experience some form of sexual restriction (such as refusal or gate-keeping)?

  • Yes
  • No

3. Who has been the refuser or gate-keeper?

  • You
  • Your Spouse
  • Other (please specify)

4. If you are the refusing or gate-keeping spouse, what reasons or experiences have led to your refusing or gate-keeping?

5. If your spouse is the one who restricts sex, what reasons or experiences do you think have led to your spouse’s refusing or gate-keeping?

6. What questions, topics, or experiences related to married intimacy would you like to see addressed in future blog posts at The Forgiven Wife?

7. Do you follow The Forgiven Wife? (Check all that apply.)

  • I follow through email.
  • I follow on Twitter.
  • I follow through a blog reader.
  • I don’t follow the blog.
  • Other (please specify)

8. Would you be interested in seeing a companion Forgiven Wife Facebook page?

  • Yes
  • No

9. How many years have you been married?

Thank you for taking the time to let me know a little about you and share your feedback on the blog. And thank you very much for reading.

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2 Comments on “Three Months In”

  1. I filled out your survey, but I just want to say thank you. You opened my eyes to me being a “gate keeper” and I am truly trying to change this. Thank you.

  2. One post per day is all I can take time to read and sometimes I can’t read that much with other responsibilities blog subscriptions.

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