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I belong to my beloved, and his desire is for me. Learning the Song of Songs, in real life. When you're a sexual gatekeeper, you're missing out on much of the lovely sexual garden God has given to you.

Keeper of the Gate

I belong to my beloved, and his desire is for me. Learning the Song of Songs, in real life. When you’re a sexual gatekeeper, you’re missing out on much of the lovely sexual garden God has given to you.

Red Roses

I’ve had a rough week at work, with lots of challenging situations and several women sitting in the crying chair in my office and needing …

Fully sharing our sexuality is a powerful, powerful thing. It is transformative. It changed my husband. It changed me. It changed our marriage. When a husband and wife come together, sharing the fullness of their sexuality with each other, the two are transformed into one. To me, that is the epitome of God’s design for marriage.

Sexuality as Superpower, the Sequel

Fully sharing our sexuality is a powerful, powerful thing. It is transformative. It changed my husband. It changed me. It changed our marriage. When a husband and wife come together, sharing the fullness of their sexuality with each other, the two are transformed into one. To me, that is the epitome of God’s design for marriage.

I am not the only woman who has let hurt from long ago affect her marriage bed. Changing sexual behavior was hard, and letting go of my emotional hurt was even harder. I had erected an emotional wall, and healing our marriage required me to knock it down. I didn't even realize I was still hurting until my husband's words healed a place in my heart.

Unexpected Healing

I am not the only woman who has let hurt from long ago affect her marriage bed. Changing sexual behavior was hard, and letting go of my emotional hurt was even harder. I had erected an emotional wall, and healing our marriage required me to knock it down. I didn’t even realize I was still hurting until my husband’s words healed a place in my heart.

Does the thought of giving up control frighten you? Do you have a list of reasons why you need to control your sex life? Do you know what it would take for you to let go? Losing control can be scary--but when you lose control, you have so much to gain.

Out of Control

Does the thought of giving up control frighten you? Do you have a list of reasons why you need to control your sex life? Do you know what it would take for you to let go? Losing control can be scary–but when you lose control, you have so much to gain.