Questioning an Assumption: Is Being Valued for Sex Such a Bad Thing?
In the most recent installment of the on-going conversation I’m having with CSL at The Curmudgeonly Librarian, I made a comment about wives feeling …
Encouragement for the Journey
Be Strong and Courageous
You matter to God. Your marriage matters to God. A strong marriage gives us a picture of how Christ loves the church. It provides stability in the face of the inevitable storms of life. A strong marriage is worth every moment, every effort, and every prayer you give.
A Quiet Proclamation
I once thought my husband and I would spend years in a marriage without intimacy. Now, even when we are sound asleep, our intimacy is loud and clear.
Do You Let Your Emotional Wounds Fester?
We all experience hurt in our marriages from time to time. I’ve moved! While you can peruse the archives here, I am no longer …
Broken Record: Do You Revisit Long-Ago Events?
Today I am writing about something that some of you may not have experienced: a broken record. If that’s the case, just gather round while …
Slipped Up by a Banana Peel
It started with a banana peel. Specifically, it was about where to throw away the aforementioned peel. Yes. Seriously. I wish I were making …
What a Quickie Taught Us About Sexual Intimacy
Does a husband really value the emotional connection and his wife’s pleasure as much as he does his own orgasm? A quickie showed me the answer, and it surprised me.
Stop the Power Struggle
Do you try to control your husband and your marriage? It’s time to let go of the power struggle! Focus on self-control instead.
Is Your Past Destroying Sex in Your Marriage?
I am delighted to have a guest post at Intimacy in Marriage this week as part of Julie’s What is Destroying Sex in Your …
The Dark Before the Dawn
Before I made the decision to work on sex in our marriage, God had been working on my heart. I’ve moved! While you can peruse …
Destination: Healed Marriage
Have you ever been on a trip that seems to take forever? Your journey is so exhausting that when you finally arrive at your destination, …
The Laundry Chute: Getting Unstuck
One of the things I love about our new home is that it has a laundry chute. It’s so much more convenient than having …
Collateral Growth
As you work on sexual intimacy, you may see find that you grow in other areas as well.
Why I Have Sex When I’m Upset with My Husband
In recent comments on a post from last year, a woman asked about having sex with your husband when you’re mad at him: “I …
The Power of “And”
When I was in fifth grade, I was part of the playground safety patrol at school. Before school and during recess, I got to …