Enough, Already!
Have you ever had that experience when you encounter the same concept in a bunch of different ways, with different people, multiple contexts, and one …
Encouragement for the Journey
Dealing with Erection Problems
Erection problems aren’t fun for anyone. Penis problems of any kind can take a psychological toll on your husband’s sense of being a man. As …
Oral Sex: Spit, or Swallow?
Like an apple tree among the trees of the forest is my beloved among the young men. I delight to sit in his shade, and …
What He Wants for Father’s Day
On Sunday, it’s Father’s Day in the US. When my kids were little, I would help them pick out a card and we would get …
Nurture Your Non-Sexual Intimacy
Nurturing the non-sexual intimacy in your marriage will help you inside and outside the bedroom. This post explains why.
Is It Manipulation? Motive Matters
Men sometimes talk about women playing games and being manipulative. Most of the time, I think they assume it is manipulation because they don’t understand …
Hurt Feelings Don’t Have to Mean No Sex
I have a sensitive heart. I have lots of feelings, and I feel them deeply. One of the downsides of this is that my …
5 Things You Can Do When You Get Stuck
A Story of a Child In a recent sermon, our pastor told the story of a little boy who put his head between the bars …
Overcome the Power of Your Feelings
I am always aware of my emotions. I name them. I describe them in detail. I compare them to feelings at other times. When I …
What Would Jesus Say?
A Christ-like approach to women in sin is to acknowledge where they are, let them know they are loved, make sure they are safe—and only then to talk about their sin. Shouldn’t we do the same thing?
Suffering from Sexual Tension
Sexual tension is a great plot device in movies and television. The pull of “Will they? Won’t they?” keeps viewers hooked, waiting to see what …
Body by God
When I was in high school, some women in my hometown converted a gorgeous old home into a restaurant that was one of those places …
A Post from the Archives about Making Sex a Priority in Marriage
During this week before Easter, I’m rerunning a couple posts from my archives. A lot of us have seen the visual aid of a jar …
A Post from the Archives about Premarital Sex
During this week before Easter, I’m rerunning a couple posts from my archives. So many Christian women have had sex before marriage. Even when that …
I Worked on Sex, and Then He Got Angry
Therefore, my dear brothers and sisters, stand firm. Let nothing move you. Always give yourselves fully to the work of the Lord, because you know …