A Soft Place to Land
A colleague and I were discussing a student who struggled with significant life challenges. We admired how the student was able to sense the …
The Early Journey
The Next Day
Yesterday, my drive to work was filled with a deep and revealing exploration of some roots of some of my gate-keeping and refusal. I hesitated …
Digging Deeper
God plants. Right in front of me, He puts in place things I need to see, consider, remember, pray about, learn from. I’ve moved! While …
Extending Grace
When I began to intentionally change some of my sexual interactions with my husband, there was part of me that expected him to jump up …
Strands of Intimacy
Intimacy isn’t just about sexual or emotional connection. Rather, it is a tapestry of bonds that connect, entangle, and comfort.
Inviting God
During the worst of my refusing/gatekeeping years, my prayer life was nothing to write home about. I was a tangled-up mess of depression, anxiety, frustration, …
Not My Problem
When I read the voices of men who have been sexually deprived because their wives control their sex lives, I ache. I hurt for …
Crawling out of the Pit
My journey from sexual resistance to sexual joy was a slow crawl.