The Next Day

Yesterday, my drive to work was filled with a deep and revealing exploration of some  roots of some of my gate-keeping and refusal. I hesitated …

Extending Grace

When I began to intentionally change some of my sexual interactions with my husband,  there was part of me that expected him to jump up …

Inviting God

During the worst of my refusing/gatekeeping years, my prayer life was nothing to write home about. I was a tangled-up mess of depression, anxiety, frustration, …