When it comes to sexual intimacy, do you prefer to stay on the sidelines of your growth, willing to let God make some changes but not interested in doing much of the work yourself? If you want healing, you need to do your part and get yourself to the healing waters.

Healing at the Pool

When it comes to sexual intimacy, do you prefer to stay on the sidelines of your growth, willing to let God make some changes but not interested in doing much of the work yourself? If you want healing, you need to do your part and get yourself to the healing waters.

Most husbands experience emotional connection best through sexual intimacy. Their desire to connect with you through sexual intimacy is how God designed them. And you may be surprised to know that learning to care for your husband's heart may end up healing your heart as well.

Care for Your Husband’s Heart

Most husbands experience emotional connection best through sexual intimacy. Their desire to connect with you through sexual intimacy is how God designed them. And you may be surprised to know that learning to care for your husband’s heart may end up healing your heart as well.

Discouragement on the journey to improve sexual intimacy is normal. Most of us hit stumbling blocks, wonder if our efforts will ever pay off, experience frustration as things don’t work or seem harder, and struggle with a husband’s reaction (or lack of reaction) to our work. For each area of discouragement you experience on your journey, see if there a new way to understand it so it can become a source of encouragement instead.

Dealing with Discouragement

Discouragement on the journey to improve sexual intimacy is normal. Most of us hit stumbling blocks, wonder if our efforts will ever pay off, experience frustration as things don’t work or seem harder, and struggle with a husband’s reaction (or lack of reaction) to our work. For each area of discouragement you experience on your journey, see if there a new way to understand it so it can become a source of encouragement instead.

Do you still carry a little girl inside you, one who learned negative lessons about herself as a child? Remember that your husband is not your father, or your grandfather, or your uncle, or any other man you knew as a little girl.

The Little Girl Inside

Do you still carry a little girl inside you, one who learned negative lessons about herself as a child? Remember that your husband is not your father, or your grandfather, or your uncle, or any other man you knew as a little girl.