It’s taken me a long time to understand that sex is for me just as much as it is for my husband. Some days, I really get it, deep in my bones. Yet there are times when I still struggle with the idea.
When Belah Rose at Delight Your Marriage asked me to chat with her about how wives can learn to enjoy sex for themselves and not just for their husbands, I thought, Yikes, I have absolutely no idea what to say.
And it kind of turns out that I was right.
“How can a wife go from reluctant to released in passion?”
That is the question Belah Rose poses at the beginning of this Delight Your Marriage podcast.
Because I am still trying to figure this out for myself, I did more meandering around her questions than answering. Rather than hear me be articulate, you get to hear me really try to think through the question, “How can a wife learn to enjoy sex for herself?” If you’ve ever wanted a glimpse into what it’s like to be in the process of thinking about sex and making changes, here’s your chance. 🙂
I talk about recognizing and honoring our own desires, trusting, being vulnerable, and living sexually as ways of learning to enjoy sex for ourselves.