Living in a Nearly Sexless Marriage
Throughout most of 2009 and 2010, we were in a nearly sexless marriage. A sexless marriage is a marriage in which sex occurs ten …
Encouragement for the Journey
When There’s a Chipmunk in Your Marriage
I’ve always thought chipmunks were cute, scurrying around in our yard, stuffing their cheeks with birdseed and generally looking adorable. In the past, however, …
I ♥ My Baby Daddy
For many years in our marriage, my husband and I seemed to be at odds rather than on the same team. I didn’t always feel …
Silver Linings
It was bound to happen sooner or later. I wrote something that caused some women to feel hurt. I felt heartsick. I questioned a whole …
Preach It, Brother
Despite the many years I fought against sex in my marriage, there were times when I would hear or read something that would stick with …
Baby Steps for Moving Forward
Are you ready to take the next steps on your sexual journey? This post gives you links to help you try some new-to-you ideas.
A Stumble Is Not a Defeat
Don’t feel discouraged when you stumble. Reboot yourself, dust yourself off, and resume your journey.
A Lot of Fuss
Are you making a lot of fuss over sex? What would your life be like if you stopped fussing and began to work on your marriage?
Do You Like Your Husband Too Much?
When Facebook came out with the Like button, I fell in love. Interaction became so easy. I could scroll through my news feed, clicking here …
How Do You Respond to Stress in Your Marriage?
The way you respond to stress can add to the tension in your marriage–so why not try responding differently?
The Wife Who Day-Dreamed
With Christ, our marriage problems of the past were washed away, replacing the old marriage with one built on a solid foundation.
He Only Wants Me for Sex
Do you feel like your husband only wants you for sex? What if what he really wants is . . . you?
Date Night, Anywhere
You can hold date night anywhere, even in the hospital!
How to Have Sex When You Don’t Really Feel Like It
Sometimes sex requires gymnastics—not during sex itself, but in my mind before I can even have sex. I’ve moved! While you can peruse the …
Milestones
A couple years ago, I mistakenly thought my marriage had completely recovered from the damage my years of gate-keeping and refusal had done. After …