Big Ol’ Chad: A Lesson on Misunderstanding
Two decades is too long to misunderstand something in your marriage.
Journey Toward Intimacy
Season of Joy or Season of Stress?
Is this a season of joy or a season of stress for you?
Weary with the Sorrow of Loneliness
From middle school into adulthood, my best friends and I grew from girlhood into womanhood together. In high school, my friends always seemed to have …
Lessons from Sexual Harassment
Have experiences with sexual harassment affected your sex life?
Help Your Husband Speak Love in Your Language
What can you do when your needs are not being met? Rather than letting your needs and desires be lost in translation, help your husband decipher them and recognize his efforts to speak love in your language.
As Bad as Porn?
Is reading sexually explicit romance novels good for your marriage? (Hint: the answer is no.) Is reading these books as bad as viewing porn? You deserve a marriage that has not been influenced by unrealistic expectations and arousal brought to you by fiction.
When You’ve Changed and Your Husband Has Stayed the Same
How can you find peace when you’ve made so many changes and your husband has barely budged? This post gives you eight ideas for how you can respond.
My Many Mental Browser Tabs
Like many men, my husband has a one-track mind. That isn’t to say that he only thinks about one thing ever. It’s more that he …
Does the Way You Avoid Sex Add to the Emotional Disconnection?
Is your avoidance of sex interfering with non-sexual connection as well?
Learn to Embrace Your Sexuality
God designed us as sexual beings. We have sexual urges. We have a clitoris which serves no other purpose that providing a woman’s sexual …
Confronted by My Self-Centeredness
I’ve often said that I am on the same journey of healing our marriage as many of you are. That doesn’t mean that I …
The Other Side of the Wall
The walls we build to help ourselves feel safe may be the very things that deny us access to what we most want. In this post, I talk about how the walls I’d built to provide me some emotional safety affected my husband’s sense of emotional safety with me. Other posts in the series share about why why we build walls, why we need to forgive, and how to tear down that wall.
Care for Your Husband’s Heart
Most husbands experience emotional connection best through sexual intimacy. Their desire to connect with you through sexual intimacy is how God designed them. And you may be surprised to know that learning to care for your husband’s heart may end up healing your heart as well.
What Message Does Your Sleepwear Send?
Does your sleepwear send a message to your husband? Is it the real message, or a message in disguise?
Love Your Man: Should Your Husband’s Sexuality Be Like Yours?
Do you have a negative view of your husband’s sexuality? Learn to understand your husband’s sexuality and sexual response, and learn to see it as part of God’s design for your marriage–just as yours is.