What’s on Your Spreadsheet?
Do you know how often you and your husband have sex? If you say “no” on more than an occasional basis, my guess is …
Learning to Dance with Desire
Do you know how often you and your husband have sex? If you say “no” on more than an occasional basis, my guess is …
A few months ago, I shared with you my desire to attend the upcoming She Speaks Conference. I asked for your help, in funds and prayers, …
A couple years ago, I mistakenly thought my marriage had completely recovered from the damage my years of gate-keeping and refusal had done. After …
I’d love to sit down with you, with some coffee and a yummy treat, and just listen to why you struggle with sex. And then here’s what I might have to say.
James 5:16 tells us to confess our sins to each other so we can be healed. In order to confess, though, you have to admit …
You can’t make another person change, and that includes your spouse. Nonetheless, just one person has the power to begin the changes that might revitalize a marriage.
Step by step, I changed my approach to sex. Here’s what worked for me. Your own steps might look different from mine—but step by step, day by day, you can make changes in your own habits.
Robyn Gibson at Up With Marriage shares her story about the course of study she undertook to work on herself when she got tired of arguing with her husband about sex.
My husband wanted just what I did—to be loved and accepted by me for who and what he was, including his need for sexual connection and value from him.
In John 5, Jesus tells the man at the pool to pick up his mat and go. What does this mean in our marriages? What do you need to do to accept the transformation God may already be making in your marriage?
You reap what you sow. You get out of it what you put into it. My decision to get a cheap motel room left a lot to be desired. I learned some lessons that can help you work on your marriage.
A husband who experiences a pattern of sexual rejection learns to guard his heart against further hurt. How can we help him rebuild his trust?
We hear so many lies about sex. How can we silence those lies and learn God’s truth about sex and sexuality in marriage?
I have all the feelings. You know the stereotype of women being so emotional? I am a perfect illustration of that stereotype. I’m emotional, I’m …
“Why would I spend money on something I don’t even keep on for two minutes?” For years, this was my response when my husband would …