Milestones

  A couple years ago, I mistakenly thought my marriage had completely recovered from the damage my years of gate-keeping and refusal had done. After …

You can't make another person change, and that includes your spouse. Nonetheless, just one person has the power to begin the changes that might revitalize a marriage.

The Power of One

You can’t make another person change, and that includes your spouse. Nonetheless, just one person has the power to begin the changes that might revitalize a marriage.

Step by step, I changed my approach to sex. Here's what worked for me. Your own steps might look different from mine—but step by step, day by day, you can make changes in your own habits.

A Change of Habit

Step by step, I changed my approach to sex. Here’s what worked for me. Your own steps might look different from mine—but step by step, day by day, you can make changes in your own habits.

My husband wanted just what I did—to be loved and accepted by me for who and what he was, including his need for sexual connection and value from him.

Accepted

My husband wanted just what I did—to be loved and accepted by me for who and what he was, including his need for sexual connection and value from him.

In John 5, Jesus tells the man at the pool to pick up his mat and go. What does this mean in our marriages? What do you need to do to accept the transformation God may already be making in your marriage?

Take Up Your Mat

In John 5, Jesus tells the man at the pool to pick up his mat and go. What does this mean in our marriages? What do you need to do to accept the transformation God may already be making in your marriage?

You get out of it what you put into it. My decision to get a cheap motel room left a lot to be desired. I learned some lessons that can help you work on your marriage.

You Reap What You Sow

You reap what you sow. You get out of it what you put into it. My decision to get a cheap motel room left a lot to be desired. I learned some lessons that can help you work on your marriage.