In Search of Libido Resources
My libido and I have been on a winding journey together. I’ve moved! While you can peruse the archives here, I am no longer …
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What If Your Husband Responds Negatively to Your Sexual Changes?
How can you respond when your husband has a negative response to your efforts to grow? What steps can you take to deal with his reaction and heal your own heart?
Let Them Pray
I want to begin by sharing with you something that has absolutely nothing to do with marriage. I’ll get around to talking about marriage at the …
A Loveliness of Links ~ June 2017
It’s time for a Loveliness of Links from June! 10 Ways a Wife Can Influence the Heart of Her Husband , Jolene Engle 12 …
How Can You Initiate When You Don’t Even Want Sex?
It can be frustrating to read articles and blog posts about sex sometimes. Well-meaning writers give you all sorts of great suggestions for how to …
If You Make Just One Change, . . .
Are you willing to make just one change in your marriage? Do this: Believe that emotional and relationship are at the heart of your husband’s sexual desire for you.
Your Husband Is Not Every Man
Many resources can have us convinced that all men struggle with lust. What does this mean when your husband says that he isn’t like that? Believe your husband and expect the best from him–even when it comes to lust.
The Big Bad Wolf
I am not a dog whisperer. As a small child, I was jumped on by a dog that either scratched or bit me. I don’t …
Which Side Is Your Husband On?
I’ve always thought of my left side as my more emotional side. I’ve moved! While you can peruse the archives here, I am no …
An Accidental Trespass
Big Guy and I recently traveled to a planning retreat for the Christian Marriage Bloggers Association. (Thank you, Tom and Debi, for welcoming us into …
A Loveliness of Links ~ May 2017
It’s time for a Loveliness of Links from May! 3 Essential Things You Need to Know About a Man’s Brain, Shaunti Feldhahn 3 Things …
The Work of Marriage
The hard work of transforming two individuals into a one-flesh marriage is part of what makes a marriage so beautiful and deeply satisfying.
Food and Sex
Strengthen me with raisins, refresh me with apples, for I am faint with love. Song of Songs 2:5 In the Song of Songs, the …
Operation Reconnection
For many years in my marriage, I felt disconnected from my husband. For him, connection happened primarily through sex and also from us just being …
Reading in Reverse
I have spent much of my life thinking about the past, which isn’t always a good thing. I’ve dragged heavy baggage around with me. …