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Learning to Dance with Desire

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Step Outside Your Comfort Zone

I've written several posts on oral sex, both giving and receiving. They're all listed here!

Oral Sex: Blessing Your Husband and Learning to Be Blessed

August 10, 2018February 8, 2021

I have quite a few oral sex posts, addressing both giving and receiving. They’re all listed here!

Whether we're talking ice cream or sex, vanilla is a great flavor.

Vanilla Is a Flavor

September 16, 2017February 19, 2019

We often people talk about “vanilla sex”—sex that is plain, the same every time, and not too spicy. Vanilla sex is “the usual.” It’s our …

Prepare for the holidays in a way that helps the intimacy in your marriage be nurtured rather than blown away. Rather than stressing out about all the things you have to do, seek comfort—in your husband’s arms.

Weathering the Holiday Storm

November 20, 2015November 2, 2020

Prepare for the holidays in a way that helps the intimacy in your marriage be nurtured rather than blown away. Rather than stressing out about all the things you have to do, seek comfort—in your husband’s arms.

Spend some time in prayer to get to the emotions that are behind that anger. Work on those areas, and see if that helps your anger ease up some.

What Does Your Anger Mean?

December 3, 2014November 26, 2017

  My husband and I used to argue all the time—about sex, money, parenting, household chores, and even how we argued. He pointed out (frequently) …

Dazzle your husband and keep your sex life alive during the holidays!

Bow-Dazzle! and 10 Other Ways to Keep Your Sex Life Alive During the Holidays

November 24, 2014October 28, 2019

Dazzle your husband and keep your sex life alive during the holidays!

She took the steps of "all lights and no clothes"--all at once.

Two Giant Steps Forward : Out of the Zone

September 27, 2013December 15, 2018

  For several weeks, I’ve written about the value of stepping outside our sexual comfort zones. I’ve shared some of my stories. Now I am …

Discomfort is often the impetus to growth. Are you uncomfortable enough in your marriage to want to make some changes? What will it take?

Are You Uncomfortable?

September 15, 2013August 26, 2020

Discomfort is often the impetus to growth. Are you uncomfortable enough in your marriage to want to make some changes? What will it take?

What do you do when you learn your husband has an interest in feet? In this guest post, a wife shares about how she became comfortable with her husband's foot partialism--and how their marriage grew in intimacy.

Open Your Mind and Take Off Your Shoes

September 13, 2013August 29, 2019

What do you do when you learn your husband has an interest in feet? In this guest post, a wife shares about how she became comfortable with her husband’s foot partialism–and how their marriage grew in intimacy.

Once we are brave and expose ourselves anyway, we have an opportunity to learn how much we are truly desired. In this guest post, a woman shares about learning to be comfortable with light during sex.

Let There Be Light: Out of the Zone

September 6, 2013August 12, 2019

Once we are brave and expose ourselves anyway, we have an opportunity to learn how much we are truly desired. In this guest post, a woman shares about learning to be comfortable with light during sex.

Step out of your comfort zone, one step at a time.

The Hokey Pokey: Throwing Your Whole Self Out of Your Comfort Zone

August 30, 2013August 2, 2019

Are you ready to step outside your comfort zone? For the next few Fridays, I’ll be writing about our sexual comfort zones. How do we get …

Stepping outside your sexual comfort zone doesn't have to be a giant step.

The Macaroni and Cheese Lesson: Stepping Your Toes Outside Your Comfort Zone

August 23, 2013August 12, 2020

Stepping outside your sexual comfort zone doesn’t have to be a giant step.

Are you ready to take a step outside your comfort zone? You never know what good things might be waiting for you out there!

The Comfort Zone

August 16, 2013February 1, 2019

The best orgasm of my life happened a few months ago. My husband and I were in a hotel room with a lovely city view. …

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A Year in the Life

A Year in the Life

Loss, Lament, and Legacy

Loss, Lament, and Legacy

Goodbye and Hello

Goodbye and Hello

Practice, Practice, Practice

Practice, Practice, Practice

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A Ministry for Husbands

KHS Ministry provides information, insight, and support for Christian husbands who want to pursue deeper sexual intimacy with their wives.

Why this blog?

The mission of The Forgiven Wife is to encourage Christian wives as they work to grow in their approach to sexual intimacy in their marriages. After 20 years of restricting the sex life in my marriage, I have learned to dance with desire and enjoy the full intimacy that comes with passionate and joyful sex with my husband. You can email me at chris@forgivenwife.com.

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Do you have a question to ask about sexual intimacy or a topic to suggest for future blog posts? 

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