Leaving the Path of Refusal
Women who become sexual gatekeepers or refusers don’t all walk the same path to get to that place. We all have our reasons. Although …
Tag: change
Seasons
It is a Friday afternoon, and I am listening to the winds howl outside while the snow pellets hit my window. When I walked in …
Beyond Redemption
I wanted to write about change, so as any good researcher would do, I did an internet search for thoughtful quotations about change and …
5 Things I’ve Learned
When I began my journey of sexual transformation, it didn’t even occur to me that I was beginning a journey. I just figured it …
Choose Joy
Yes, this blog is mostly about sex. Why? I’ve moved! While you can peruse the archives here, I am no longer posting at The Forgiven …
One Night at a Time
In this morning’s sermon, our pastor talked about the battle to stay faithful, especially when being faithful means setting aside old ways. He said, “We …
What If It Really Is Me?
I refused my husband for several years. The frequency was far below what he wanted, I rarely participated, and I looked at sex as just …
Just One Step
If thinking about the whole journey you need to travel is intimidating, then just think about one step at a time.
Crawling out of the Pit
My journey from sexual resistance to sexual joy was a slow crawl.