Get Flashy!
Flashing your husband is a great way to do some quick sexual teasing that you will follow up on later in the day. When is the last time you got flashy?
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Do the Brave Thing
Is it possible to heal from having your feelings dismissed in your marriage?
A Loveliness of Links
We have different names for animals when they are gathered together. A pride of lions. An exaltation of larks. A flock of goats. A …
10 Things You Can Do to Feel Sexy This Weekend
Need some help feeling sexy? Here’s a list of 10 things you can do right away to bump up your personal sizzle.
Help Your Husband Speak Love in Your Language
What can you do when your needs are not being met? Rather than letting your needs and desires be lost in translation, help your husband decipher them and recognize his efforts to speak love in your language.
As Bad as Porn?
Is reading sexually explicit romance novels good for your marriage? (Hint: the answer is no.) Is reading these books as bad as viewing porn? You deserve a marriage that has not been influenced by unrealistic expectations and arousal brought to you by fiction.
Lost in Translation
Intimacy in marriage includes knowing and accepting each other. My husband needs to accept that my sexuality is different from his, and he needs to accept that what I will give him in the form of my expression is the best way I can translate my feelings into his being desired. At the same time, I need to accept that my husband needs to feel sexually desirable to me. I learned that I could translate what I’m feeling emotionally into a sexual expression that will speak to my husband.
Can You Learn to Enjoy Sex for You?
It’s taken me a long time to understand that sex is for me just as much as it is for my husband. Some days, I …
Do a New Thing
When old patterns arise, do a new thing.
When You’ve Changed and Your Husband Has Stayed the Same
How can you find peace when you’ve made so many changes and your husband has barely budged? This post gives you eight ideas for how you can respond.
What Does a Video Game Show About Marriage Growth?
I was playing a video game the other day, and I realized that my avatar’s energy level was getting low. Instead of forging ahead …
How Do Long-Time Patterns Affect Your Marriage Bed?
Have long-time patterns carved ruts into your marriage bed? When you recognize a rut, you have a new opportunity to replace those long-time patterns of thought and behavior with something better.
Making Sexual Changes: Your First Step
So far in this Making Sexual Changes series, I’ve talked about understanding how we got to the beginning of this journey of change and …
Making Sexual Changes: Swimming into the Waters of Change
This is the second of a three-part series about how to begin to make changes in sexual intimacy in your marriage. Some of us …
Making Sexual Changes: What Is Your Story?
I hear from many women about how they came to decide to work on sexual intimacy in their marriages. Not a single one has ever …