Since I’ve been getting a lot of traffic on my oral sex posts, it’s clear that oral sex is something that a lot of readers want to know more about. Many wives struggle withit, both giving and receiving.
Rather than write something new, I thought it would be helpful to point you to the oral sex posts already in my archives.
Oral Sex for Him
These posts address oral sex for him. If you are trying to get comfortable with the idea of giving your husband oral sex, these posts will give you some great ideas.
- Oral Blessings – How can you become more comfortable with the idea of giving your husband oral sex?
- Dealing with a Gag Reflex – If a gag reflex gets in the way of giving oral sex, what can you do?
- Because He’s Worth It – Do you have concerns about doing oral sex? Here are some ways to work through common objections.
- Oral Blessings – More Resources – This isn’t the only blog that has written about oral sex in Christian marriage. This post points you to what some of my sister Christian marriage bloggers have had to say.
- Oral Arguments – As compassion and generosity settled in and grew in my heart, oral sex had stopped being a battle without me even trying.
- Take a Step Toward Oral Sex – If you want to give your husband oral sex but don’t know where to start, these steps can help.
- Oral Sex: Spit, or Swallow? – If your husband asks you to swallow at the end of oral sex, what should you do?
- Oral Sex Techniques – How do you give your husband oral sex? Check out these techniques used by Christian wives!
Oral Sex for You
I’ve also written some posts about oral sex for us. For some of us, receiving oral sex isn’t such an easy thing. In these posts, I write about the struggles some of us face, what Christian wives have to say about receiving oral sex, and even about our unique female scent. The last post gives you some steps to take in learning to receive oral sex from your husband.
- To Drink of Spiced Wine – What will it take for you to learn to accept and enjoy your husband’s sexual blessing of oral sex?
- Its Choicest Fruits – Are you comfortable receiving and enjoying oral sex?
- Blow Upon My Garden – The unique spicy aroma of our sexual arousal is a good thing. If your husband says that he likes it, he really does mean it!
- Of Garden, Fragrance, and Fruit – How can you get comfortable receiving oral sex from your husband?
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Hi Chris, When my husband first brought this up {os) in our marriage I did not even want to discuss it with him. More often than not my mind was some place else when we did have intercourse anyway. Then at some point I realized that I needed to be a better wife for him and our marriage. I then looked for information about os on the internet. I found your blog and a few others that addressed intimacy in marriage. Your blog is the best when it comes to addressing this subject for sure. It has really helped me (us) talk about os and our intimacy in general. I feel that os has been good for our marriage. I just need to get more comfortable receiving.
Thank you for all of the great information.
Thank you so much for your encouraging words. I’m glad my posts have been helpful.