If your husband is like a lot of guys, he loves it when you surprise him with something sexual.
Not only does it give him a sexual thrill, it also shows him that you have been thinking about him. This is especially important if you’ve avoided or resisted sex in the past. A sexual surprise clearly demonstrates that you are still committed to having a good sex life with him. It communicates that you sexually desire him
You know what else it does? Planning a sexual surprise can help you anticipate sex, so it’s good for you, too!
So how about giving your husband a sexy surprise sometime soon?
I’m not talking about elaborate sexual scenarios, either. I’m referring to small things that add a boost of sexual excitement. A small spark can start a roaring fire, after all!
Here are some ideas to get you started. (All product links are affiliate links that give me a commission.)
- Slip into the shower with your husband. Make sure you get something sexy started (or even finished!).
- Get some new lingerie. (You can shop with my affiliate links at Marriage Spice and Honoring Intimates.) Read this post for what you can do with your new lingerie.
- Wear a thong, sexy panties, or no panties at all when you’re out together. Make sure you give him a peek or tell him what you’re wearing (or not) so he can be thinking about how you look under your clothes.
- Get a new pubic hairstyle. If you usually go all natural, trim or wax. If you usually trim, try removing everything.
- Paint your toenails a new color. If you usually have a soft pink, go for a teal or red.
- Write sexy messages on your body with a Sharpie marker. Or draw a treasure map or just an X to mark the spots where you want to be touched.
- Place a temporary tattoo on a part of your body that only your husband will see.
- Take charge of date night, and make sure that it includes sex.
- Maneuver your husband into position and start in on a sexual activity or position that you know he loves, especially if he loves to receive oral sex.
- Flash him.
Also, check out ideas from these other posts!
Sexual Teasing
18 Ways to Spice Up Your Sex Life This Weekend
7 Ideas for Using Halloween Sales to Spice Up Your Marriage Bed
Spicy Extras
Are you in? Are you ready to plan a sexual surprise for your husband?
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Speaking as a husband… YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
My husband feels the same way…
Doing something unexpected is fun for both.
I like to surprise my husband on occasion, with lingerie or something, I have used body tattoos in intimate places and he loves those. Once in a while I will wear a shelf bra out shopping and he will realise it as he will see my nips peeking and that drives him crazy
Thanks for sharing!