Add Spice to Your Sex Life

Last week I gave you a list of links to posts to help you stretch a bit beyond your comfort zone.

For today’s summer break post, I want to share links to help you add spice to your sex life. Some of these posts add mild spice, while others are a little hotter.

Mild Spice

18 Ways to Spice Up Your Sex Life This Weekend – If you want to spice up your sex life but don’t know where to start, this is the post for you!

3 Ways a Vibrator Can Help Marital Intimacy – If you’ve wondered if it’s okay to use a vibrator, here are some reasons why it might be a good idea. I’ve also included some links that offer a different point of view. (Listen to our podcast episode about sex toys.)

7 Ways to Make the Most of Your Lingerie – There’s more to using lingerie than just wearing it! (Listen to our podcast episode about lingerie.)

Get Flashy! – Flashing your husband can be fun. Here’s why (along with some tips).

Oral Sex Techniques – This post gives you techniques that real Christian wives use in oral sex. At the bottom, you’ll find a list of links to my other posts about oral sex. (Listen to our podcast episode about oral sex.)

Say What? Sexy Talk in the Bedroom – If your husband says he’d like you to try some sexy talk, just what does that mean? And how can you learn to be comfortable doing it? (Listen to our podcast episode about sexy talk.)

Sexual Teasing – If you want to try teasing your husband but don’t know how, this post gives you ideas.

Showing the Touch of Love – Would your husband like to watch you masturbate?

Southern Grooming – What is your pubic hair style? (Listen to our podcast episode about tending the “garden.”)

Hotter Spice

An Unconventional Request – If your husband tells you he’d like you to try something that seems way out of left field, it can be hard to know how to even think about the idea. This post walks you through a process and helps you understand your husband’s desire.

Are Role-Playing and Fantasy Okay in a Christian Marriage? – How much make-believe is okay in the bedroom? This post walks you through important questions to ask and also helps you understand why role-playing is fun for some couples.

Can a Christian Wife Learn to Be Wild? – If you’re thinking about doing something a little, well, kinky, it’s hard to know where to start. This post gives you baby steps to help you get comfortable as you learn.

Do I Have To? – This post isn’t about how to spice up your sex life as much as it’s about how to handle it if your husband wants to do something to spice things up and your gut reaction is a big no. I wanted to include it here in case you’re a little freaked out by some of the other posts in this list.

Food and Sex – This post gives you ideas and safety tips for incorporating food into your sexy time. (Listen to our podcast episode about food and sex.)

Sexy Pictures and Video in a Christian Marriage? – Is it okay to take pictures and video of your sex life? This post helps you think through this question—and if you decide to try it, you’ll find some tips for being wise with your images.

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