Valentine’s Day is right around the corner (next week!). You still have time to plan something special—and sexy—to enjoy with your husband. In fact, telling him that you’re going to be in charge of sex might be the perfect Valentine’s Day gift for him.
So let’s get ready!
This post is filled with links to resources to help you boost your sexual desire, explore ideas for sexy time, and even get the things that will help you put your sexual plans into action.
Stoke Your Sexual Desire
If you are a woman who struggles with sexual interest, then start thinking about Valentine’s Day sex NOW.
These resources will help you feel sexy and start to anticipate some Valentine’s Day fun.
Blog posts
Podcast episodes
Plan Something Sexy
If you want to think of something fun and sexy to do, these resources are a great place to start! You’ll find tons of ideas on things you can do to make your Valentine’s Day sex a little “extra.”
Blog posts and articles
- 18 Ways to Spice Up Your Sex Life This Weekend
- 3 Ways a Vibrator Can Help Marital Intimacy
- 7 Ways to Make the Most of Your Lingerie
- DIY Sex Items
- Full Body Sexual Massage (from The Marriage Bed)
- Get Flashy!
- Give Your Husband a Sexy Surprise
- How to Strip for Your Husband (from The Marriage Bed)
- Oral Sex: Blessing Your Husband and Learning to Be Blessed
- Plan a Sex Date
- Romance His Socks Off
- Say What? Sexy Talk in the Bedroom
- Sexual Teasing
- Southern Grooming
Podcast episodes
- Episode 8: Sex Toys
- Episode 10: Tending Your Garden
- Episode 41: Flirting with Your Husband
- Episode 47: Lingerie
Go Shopping!
If your Valentine’s Day plans involve lingerie, sex furniture, sex toys, or other props, my affiliate links below take you to Christian sites that can help you find what you need.
Married Dance
This Christian sex toy store offers a tastefully curated selection of Christian-friendly sex toys and marital aids.
Use forgiven as the coupon code at checkout for a discount.
MarriedDance offers pilot programs that include a 60-day risk-free chance to figure it out. If it isn’t for you, you can return it with no questions asked. Each pilot program includes instructions that help you figure out what you’re doing. (Also, be sure to check out my blog post 3 Ways a Vibrator Can Help Marital Intimacy.)
- 60-Day Risk-Free Traditional-Style Vibrator Pilot Program
- 60-Day Risk-Free Vibrating Ring Pilot Program
- 60-Day Risk-Free Bullet Vibrator Pilot Program
Marriage Spice
Shop for marital aids and intimacy products that help add intimacy and romance to your marriage bed.
Honoring Intimates
Honoring Intimates is dedicated to bringing the fun back to God’s gift of the marriage bed. You can find lingerie, marital aids, lubricants, and more.
You have a whole week to stoke your desire, plan something sexy, and gather what you need. Have fun, ladies!
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I know that Valentine’s Day isn’t for everybody. Some may think our sweetie should be our sweetie every day (which we should) so Valentine’s day is just another day on the Calendar.
Our days are numbered in this life, so anytime we can enjoy alone time, even to cuddle or watch Island Life at night with the one I love, can be treated like we are in paradise.
In the case of my spouse and I, we choose use it as an opportunity to make Valentine’s Day a special day, because not every day is a “date night”. Valentine’s Day gives us an “excuse” to go on a date in the middle of week. I look at life being too short and I look at my wife as a gift from God.
Though we don’t have an intimate “gifts” implemented into our bedroom, it isn’t too late!
The only tricky part is picking a couple of “gifts” my spouse would like. There are many items to choose from and it looks like it can get expensive until the right one if found.
The one concern I have about a vibrator is that I have heard that they can over-stimulate her erogenous area. What I’d prefer is a gift that teases or elevates her arousal which is how we make love anyway.
Many couples use vibrators on a low setting to avoid over-stimulation. You might want to give Married Dance’s vibrator pilot a try. It allows you to see if it works for you, and if you and your wife decide it doesn’t, you can return it for a refund, no questions asked.