Spicy Extras

Are you ready to spice up your marriage bed?

As you get more comfortable with the sexual intimacy in your marriage, it will be time to think about all the fun you can have in the marriage bed. These posts will help you expand your repertoire just a bit. You’ll find techniques, ideas, and stories from me and other women about having a fun and spicy sex life with your husband.

Note: If you are just beginning your journey toward healthier sexual intimacy, you may not be ready to think about much spice in your marriage bed. Click the back button and save this page for later. It will wait. 🙂

Enjoy yourself!

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5 Comments on “Spicy Extras”

  1. Good evening.
    What do you guys think about sex dolls?

    My wife and I occasionally use toys etc etc.

    And obviously those are not real ppl in our bedroom, but I guess they kinda are another body part in the bedroom.

    Are dolls any different?
    I’m well aware that these questions aren’t in the Scriptures.

    So I’d love your help on this matter.

    And what about sexual fantasies?

    My wife and I have shared things we’ve thought about before and it’s made for some extreme orgasms for both of us.

    We have both stated to each other that we’d never do any of these fantasies with real ppl, they’re just made up faceless ppl.

    We’re very sexual ppl, but we’re also we’ll aware that we can’t cross that biblical line with God.

    So I was just curious what your thoughts might be.

    We don’t have a doll, but have talked in the past about getting one, but we’re obviously not to sure about it

    Thanks, Kevin

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    1. I’ve written about fantasies in this post. You and your wife have to determine to what extent fantasies are just grown-up fun and when they cross the line into sin or perhaps something that isn’t good for one of you or for your marriage.

      I tend to think that a lot is okay in the bedroom, even when it comes to some things that other Christian sex bloggers say should be off-limits. Even so, I think sex dolls cross the line from being a toy to being a little too much like another person. It turns a mental fantasy into a physical entity, and I think it draws our attention too far from our spouse. But that’s my opinion. You and your wife should discuss it, pray about it, and determine what boundaries are wise for the two of you.

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      1. Thanks so much for your response.
        Yeah I tend to agree with you on acting on a fake but real person.

        That’s very helpful to me and my wife.
        The last thing we wanna do is dishonor God.

        I did read you article on fantasies, it made alot of sense to me.

        But I don’t know if you addressed this specifically.

        What about fantasies or I guess you could say talking dirty with each other in the bedroom or in letters or throughout the day.

        My wife and I have told each other some things we’ve thought about, but that we would never ever do.

        We know adultery is sin
        Orgies is sin
        Porn is sin.
        Lust is sin.
        Drunkenness is sin.
        Homosexuality is sin.

        Is it OK to bring up fake scenarios that would never happen, as we have done this a few times, and talking dirty to each other about some fake scenarios, have really increased our intimacy and our orgasms.

        We don’t think they’re sinful, because they’re not real ppl, but I would love to hear your opinion on this matter, since you seem to have a great understanding of what is wrong and right to do in the marriage bed.

        Thanks

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        1. My opinion is that these activities are not inherently sinful, but they certainly could be so for many people. If you are concerned that something might be crossing a line, it might be best not to go there.

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